the most recent one —
Being Gay is a Risk Factor for Depression. So Is My Family. (opens in a new tab)
I'm a gay man coming out of a two-month depression, and this time it wasn't the breakup or my birthday. It was accepting that my family won't change.…
play ithey, i'm scott.
i'm a gay man in los angeles, oversharing on the internet. how original.
dating, aging, friendship... thoughts i probably shouldn't post but do anyway. i'm not here to fix anything, just a guy saying the thing.
sometimes i write (like it's still 2005). not winning literary awards. just me, oversharing. in your inbox. want in?
about once or twice a month. never spam. leave whenever.
if you're new, start here: still single
(yes, still accurate.)
I'm a Gay Man Who Did Everything I Was Supposed To Do. Still Single. (opens in a new tab)
Gay Nerd Analyzes 6 Years of Tinder Data. I Can't Believe Dating Apps Made Me Worse at Dating. (opens in a new tab)
Gay Body Dysmorphia Stole My 20s (and I Let It Happen) (opens in a new tab)
the whole playlist
gay man. still single.a series — on youtube (opens in a new tab)
everywhere else, lately
(warning: unsupervised)
TWITCH · STREAM
Stress Test is stressful (opens in a new tab)
YOUTUBE · VIDEO
I’m a Gay Man Who’s Almost 40 and Running Out of Time (opens in a new tab)
THREADSI've been single for most of my adult life. The scary part isn't being alone, it's how good I've become at it. I've got the house, my friends, the routine. I can do all of it alone and that might be the problem. 🫠 (opens in a new tab)
Stress Test is stressful (opens in a new tab)
YOUTUBE · VIDEOI’m a Gay Man Who’s Almost 40 and Running Out of Time (opens in a new tab)
THREADSI've been single for most of my adult life. The scary part isn't being alone, it's how good I've become at it. I've got the house, my friends, the routine. I can do all of it alone and that might be the problem. 🫠 (opens in a new tab)